Service to Sister Today: update

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  1. Mar 23, 2020 at 4:42 PM #1

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    After months and months of this and thousands of dollars, I am hoping my sister will be served today. This is the second round of trying to serve her for the Convertorship Case. She does not answer the door. So needless to say I am a nervous wreck today know I will be once again banned from my mom's by my sister and mom will now put me on her **it list.

    My Attorney's son is going to sit on the porch and wait for my sister to come outside and get the Meals on Wheels out of the ice chest then serve her. The only small glitch will be in my mom's nosey neighbor interferes and calls the police because someone is sitting on the porch.

    Some of you know this long saga some do not, but it is ugly. For the ones that do here is a little update. My sister told my cousin that she entended the "Olive Branch" and is trying to work things out by letting me see mom and talking to me. So my cousin mentioned to my sister that we go back to the way it was when we were working together and my sister to her it was not going to happen. So much for Extending the proverbial "Olive Branch". She still had a security system installed which I have to access too so I have to call when I decide to visit.
     
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    I am so sorry you are having to suffer this. I prayed, just now, to God that He bring you all to reconciliation, repentance, and forgiveness of one another. That He work a such miracle for you that it will be a glory to His name and that He hold you, Carolyn, in His healing embrace throughout this struggle.
     
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    Carolyn, fingers crossed she's served this time. I keep you in my thoughts hoping for an positive end to this for you. You're one strong woman.
     
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    Thank you both I keep trying. Sadly this is not doing much for my health. My doc is sending me to a cardiologist. :( Stairs are starting to bother me. But I refuse to let it beat me, I am just too. My sister will find when pushed I push back.

    I am now pacing the floor.
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    Thinking of you today and hoping that your sister does get served. And that can help you reduce some of the stress in your life. I'm sorry this is all taking a toll on your health. Stay strong.
     
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    I know this sounds random, but do you like cats?
     
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    Yup, I have two cats. I love cats
    I 6 yr old granddaughter's favorite kitty has been gone for 3 days. I keep praying she comes home.
     
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    I’m sorry to hear about your kitty. I pray she comes home soon. In the meantime I was going to send you a video of my cat purring so you could listen to the soothing sound. Unfortunately I can’t figure out how to upload a video here. Dang.

    I posted it on my FB page. Kari Roberson Howie
     
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    Unbelievable, failed again today. She must have seen them outside and did not go out to pick up the food.
     
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    Can you call the relevant authority and say that your mother is not getting her meals picked up at the door and your worried for her health.
     
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    At the moment my sister has herself planted there so nope that does not work. I have had Adult Protection there twice and they think everything is fine since my sister claims to be mom's caretaker. I am sure she fed mom something else and picked up the food after my stakeout left.
     
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    I'm so sorry to hear that. She sounds like a really horrible person. I hope karma catches up with her.
     
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    Finally accomplished this morning. My Attorney's 18 yr son got it done, and of course, mom called about 5 min later.
     
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    So happy for this small victory. I'm sure your mom is upset but you know its worth her anger, especially since she doesn't fully understand what is going on.

    Hopefully this will get you on the way to getting your mom back.
     
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    We will see. I am really now just going for free access to my mom's and controlling the finances. Hopefully, my sister will decide not to contest it. If she wants to continue living there and taking care of mom fine, she is just not going to take cruises on mom's money anymore. She will never be approved for conservatorship but if she contests it there is a chance the court may appoint an outside conservator. Then mom will probably be in trouble and be placed in a facility. Court date is in May
     
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    That's great news that they were finally able to serve her. Keeping you in my prayers that things go well for you. You're doing what's best for your mom, just keep remembering that. You have her best interest in mind.
     
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    Hope everything works out for you. Sending you best wishes and positive thoughts. Take good care of yourself.
    Hugs xxx
     
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