Yes, I am still waiting for my house and nope I do not have mom's estate settled yet. 
I frankly have given up and told my attorney to drop the court action and just give my sister half of the third house. Of course I do not think that is going to make her happy either. She thinks the house that is left to me is more more valuable becuase of an unpermitted parking lot that the city is threating to make me tear out and they will not permit a parking lot. It is a parcel across the street. Long story, but she cannot get it through her hard skull you cannot grandfather in an unpermitted parking lot.
Anyway, my latest saga is my SIL had to have a complete hip rebuild, the one in NV that struggles daily to support his family. While he is a hard worker they just have a constant struggle with my daughter being disabled. Due to lousey insurance that that pick and chooses what they will pay and a small town that needs all money up front we have had to put out thousands of dollars for him in order to keep him out of a wheel chair the rest of his life. This also meant paying all the monthy bills including their house payments. We were thankful we have the money to help. Yep over 30k later I am still paying their bills. Now my wonderful US bank manger reported me to Protective Services and cut off my being able to wire my kids money. She demanded seeing the bills, gets in my face everytime I walk in the bank and tries to tell me this is only for my protection. My SIL's knee blew up and they thought it could be a blood clot and needed a MRI and Ultrasound ASAP, which of course required immediate payment. The bank manger blocked it and got in my face, after I threated her with a lawsuit she released the money and told me never again would she do it.
So who comes to my door yesterday? A Whittier Police office checking on me and discussing the report she filed. I am livid and already filed two complaings with US bank against her. Well now I am going to file Federal complaints against her. Oh yes, she also threatened to close my accout. This is after I explained the situation to her many times. If it is not one thing I am fighting it is another these days.
Thankfully my SIL's surgery went well and his knee issue was addressed without full knee surgery. Sadly the issue that caused his problems was from hip dysplasia from birth and it also affects my granddaughter Autumn. We will also have to address her leg issue that is twisted pretty badly.
I frankly have given up and told my attorney to drop the court action and just give my sister half of the third house. Of course I do not think that is going to make her happy either. She thinks the house that is left to me is more more valuable becuase of an unpermitted parking lot that the city is threating to make me tear out and they will not permit a parking lot. It is a parcel across the street. Long story, but she cannot get it through her hard skull you cannot grandfather in an unpermitted parking lot.Anyway, my latest saga is my SIL had to have a complete hip rebuild, the one in NV that struggles daily to support his family. While he is a hard worker they just have a constant struggle with my daughter being disabled. Due to lousey insurance that that pick and chooses what they will pay and a small town that needs all money up front we have had to put out thousands of dollars for him in order to keep him out of a wheel chair the rest of his life. This also meant paying all the monthy bills including their house payments. We were thankful we have the money to help. Yep over 30k later I am still paying their bills. Now my wonderful US bank manger reported me to Protective Services and cut off my being able to wire my kids money. She demanded seeing the bills, gets in my face everytime I walk in the bank and tries to tell me this is only for my protection. My SIL's knee blew up and they thought it could be a blood clot and needed a MRI and Ultrasound ASAP, which of course required immediate payment. The bank manger blocked it and got in my face, after I threated her with a lawsuit she released the money and told me never again would she do it.
So who comes to my door yesterday? A Whittier Police office checking on me and discussing the report she filed. I am livid and already filed two complaings with US bank against her. Well now I am going to file Federal complaints against her. Oh yes, she also threatened to close my accout. This is after I explained the situation to her many times. If it is not one thing I am fighting it is another these days.
Thankfully my SIL's surgery went well and his knee issue was addressed without full knee surgery. Sadly the issue that caused his problems was from hip dysplasia from birth and it also affects my granddaughter Autumn. We will also have to address her leg issue that is twisted pretty badly.
