islandbeauty
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krissy said:i would make it so that coming over is a big pain to her. childish maybe but who cares...nothing that will hurt her but that will hurt her feelings or make her feel unwelcome
like if she shows up, go outside and start sweeping up, keep going in front of her, messing up her line of sight to your DH, sweep her feet by "accident", make it hard to converse
offer her something to drink and put salt in it. or spill it on her accidentally, or drop a full plastic cup on accident right at her feet so that she is covered in soda-don't help her clean herself or offer her a towel.
put a hanging flower basket up where she likes to stand on your porch and come out and put a lot of water in it so that she cant satnd comfortably.
spray down the side of the house so that she can't stand anywhere near your DH and when ever she starts talking turn on the sprayer so that her words are drowned out
when she comes over stay beside your DH, he is yours! when she comes over to talk make her feel dumb for what she needs. say how sorry you are that she has to come around because she doesn't have a man that can take care of her like you do. look at her with pity whenever she needs something and comment on her lack of a man and how very sad it makes you that she can't find her own man. get her some dating service cards or websites and give them to her in front your DH and say stuff like "i have heard this place can get ANYONE a date, so she should have a shot".
also tell her that you have found a few good handy men who should be able to take care of her problems, give her a sheet from the phone book- literally rip out the page and give it to her
tell her right in the middle of her conversation/story/whatever that you don't feel comfortable taking up anymore of her time and that you and YOUR DH are trying to have a quiet night together. maybe put up an outdoor styled curtain so that she can't see you guys?
talk about how much you enjoy uninterrupted nights hanging out with your DH, and how you miss how quiet it was at your old place with only the 2 of you.
i hope that maybe some of this will work and i wish you good luck dealing with that bitch.
if worse comes to worst, and you feel like your DH is doing something to encourage it or worse, the rent some bugging equipment and bugg a few of their convos. if nothing comes of it, then good, but if it were my DH and he was encouraging it, i'd want to know for sure
ChrissyB said:he is letting on, either that or he is enjoying the extra attention.
I've got a better idea about the handymen out of the phone book, YOU ring them up and get some to come around and give you a quote for some odd job or another, sort of an audition of sorts, and hire the hunkiest one for the most menial jobs you have. And make sure he's there fixing things when DH comes home from work. With his shirt off (cos handymen get very hot when they are fixing things yanno :wink: )
LJA said:Sorry, hun.
And look, I dont know you or your husband, but if that were MY husband, heads would be rolling. There's somethin' wrong with a man that takes some nasty ho-bag's side over his wife's, whether he thinks you're making more of it or not. Are you compleeeeeeeeetly sure there's nothing going on here? He's definitely digging the attention, if nothing else.
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