I'm one of the non-stirrers- at least up until the end of the cook when the batter is translucent and zap-less and I mix in my colorants and/or scent. Before that, I just let it do its thing and peek in on it every 20 minutes or so to see how its coming along. But that's not to say that there's anything wrong with stirring, mind you. I just choose not to because I've found it to be unnecessary, and if something's unnecessary, you can be sure I'll usually take the easy way out and not bother doing it.
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In regards to cure- I agree with Obsidian. Although any soap is safe to use if it doesn't 'zap' when you apply the tongue test to it, that doesn't mean it has matured yet to the point of being the best it can be. And that includes HP. I've washed with my 'safe' HP right after cutting to test it out and it felt horrible on my skin- made it feel all tight and dry. Ick! Four weeks down the road, though, it felt awesome!
Some people cure their soaps for 4 weeks, some cure them for 6 weeks, some for 8 weeks, etc.... How long you decide to cure your own soap is really up to you and your own skin (or the skin of those who use your soap).
Keep a bar aside and test it out once a week and write down how it feels on your skin and how it behaves/performs etc... That's something I did early on with my formulas, and I found 4 weeks to be my 'magic number', i.e., the point that I felt my soap had reached its
earliest best in all categories (i.e. sudsiness, mildness, hardness, etc..), and also the point at which I wouldn't be ashamed to give it away to someone as a gift.
Although I've found my soap to still get a bit better after those 4 weeks have gone by, the difference isn't
so huge to me as to warrant a longer cure before being placed in my 'ready' boxes. I'm usually satisfied with it enough at 4 weeks to call it officially done and take it into the shower with me. Well.....unless it's a Castile, that is. Those are a different animal altogether. Three months is my absolute
earliest best for Castile's. lol
IrishLass