Alright, this is my Psychology...My lady and I are nowhere even close to the same ideology about how to live life (also the reason this thread is being birthed...)
...I (as Id bet most on this forum have noticed) am an extremely positive individual...if someone where to ask my religion, Im a soldier for positivity...I believe in keeping an upful mind, no matter what you face even though the world sometimes throws you curveballs and unexpected turns, I take the stumbling blocks and turn them into stepstools to help me reach that hidden volume of a book I cant reach waaay on the top shelf, I believe in respecting all things, living or innanimate and I take a lot of beliefs and values from the Native Americans, whom I respect as one of my spiritual energy sources (not trying to get cosmic on you...but I believe in reincarnation, and I believe I am an Old Spirit...I know it, its more than a belief, its something I just feel...and know its true, somewhere along the line Im sure I was a Native American)...
...I let intuition guide me, I feel my connection to the Earth is quite close...I feel the energy of the Earth beneath my feet and its almost a tangible sensation..I feel my spiritual energy just as strong, this energy and intuition guides me...as well as my brain as I tend to think through all situations on my feet, I am confident nearly anywhere, I know that I am safe because I dont put myself in situations that are dangerous and I avoid those which could turn in to such (fight or flight as I believe Darwin said or someone else...excapes memory?). I dont care where I am from the slums of Kingston, to Rodeo drive I know unless I do something stupid Ill live through most situations, every dog has its day but I dont think mine will end in a negative way...Its just a feeling, a reassurance from my soul...and should it be my day and things not go as planned, I accept fate as it comes because thats the way things were set to be....I feel that I can control life experiences but I think my destiny may be set, because I feel it comes from my soul...I feel that my lifes work is to be able to access my soul in its totality, learn its depths and unify my body and soul and consciousness with the world...My lifes work is to achieve my destiny and find what I was put here in this life for, and borne of these specific parents for, what did they teach me and how can I merge their concepts, morals and philosophy into one and add my own pieces to it?.....This is what I strive to achieve, and I remain upfull and positive all the while no matter what the circumstance, though I may have my days you cant change the convictions of the heart, clouds clear because they are burned away by the fire of the soul, and I feel I am just a candle lit from the eternal sun.
...I am inconsequential in the scheme of things and scale of the Earth, though I know my works will carry on to many people and my voice will be heard...I am still inconsequential because I am so small compared to such a large world out there...But I know I was put here for a purpose and I feel that by entering situations and driving for positive outcomes, or turning the negative into a positive experience...I cannot lose..
I could keep going and going but I think you get the picture...
Now my girl on the other hand feels everyone is out to get you (and I dont disagree that there are many of these types...its just being conscious of them and how to deal with them that matters...) She gets so worried and defensive of my position almost to where I feel she attacks me when I enter into situaitons with such positive light and mindset ( I dont really set expectations for the most part...I just take it as it comes... and hence I never have a bar that wasnt met and such...if something doesnt fit in with what I want to be a part of I dont pursue it)...She just cant understand my mentality, and I know it was because of where she was raised and how and such... (Bronx, NY) she takes more of a pessimistic view on things as opposed to me where I try to take the most optimisitc view I can...I understand that she doesnt understand my view on things...so its kind of one of those agree to disagree situations but it still irks me and its like Im having a hard time dealing with that....ayeee...
Im going to do what I want to do and no one can change my mind
...I (as Id bet most on this forum have noticed) am an extremely positive individual...if someone where to ask my religion, Im a soldier for positivity...I believe in keeping an upful mind, no matter what you face even though the world sometimes throws you curveballs and unexpected turns, I take the stumbling blocks and turn them into stepstools to help me reach that hidden volume of a book I cant reach waaay on the top shelf, I believe in respecting all things, living or innanimate and I take a lot of beliefs and values from the Native Americans, whom I respect as one of my spiritual energy sources (not trying to get cosmic on you...but I believe in reincarnation, and I believe I am an Old Spirit...I know it, its more than a belief, its something I just feel...and know its true, somewhere along the line Im sure I was a Native American)...
...I let intuition guide me, I feel my connection to the Earth is quite close...I feel the energy of the Earth beneath my feet and its almost a tangible sensation..I feel my spiritual energy just as strong, this energy and intuition guides me...as well as my brain as I tend to think through all situations on my feet, I am confident nearly anywhere, I know that I am safe because I dont put myself in situations that are dangerous and I avoid those which could turn in to such (fight or flight as I believe Darwin said or someone else...excapes memory?). I dont care where I am from the slums of Kingston, to Rodeo drive I know unless I do something stupid Ill live through most situations, every dog has its day but I dont think mine will end in a negative way...Its just a feeling, a reassurance from my soul...and should it be my day and things not go as planned, I accept fate as it comes because thats the way things were set to be....I feel that I can control life experiences but I think my destiny may be set, because I feel it comes from my soul...I feel that my lifes work is to be able to access my soul in its totality, learn its depths and unify my body and soul and consciousness with the world...My lifes work is to achieve my destiny and find what I was put here in this life for, and borne of these specific parents for, what did they teach me and how can I merge their concepts, morals and philosophy into one and add my own pieces to it?.....This is what I strive to achieve, and I remain upfull and positive all the while no matter what the circumstance, though I may have my days you cant change the convictions of the heart, clouds clear because they are burned away by the fire of the soul, and I feel I am just a candle lit from the eternal sun.
...I am inconsequential in the scheme of things and scale of the Earth, though I know my works will carry on to many people and my voice will be heard...I am still inconsequential because I am so small compared to such a large world out there...But I know I was put here for a purpose and I feel that by entering situations and driving for positive outcomes, or turning the negative into a positive experience...I cannot lose..
I could keep going and going but I think you get the picture...
Now my girl on the other hand feels everyone is out to get you (and I dont disagree that there are many of these types...its just being conscious of them and how to deal with them that matters...) She gets so worried and defensive of my position almost to where I feel she attacks me when I enter into situaitons with such positive light and mindset ( I dont really set expectations for the most part...I just take it as it comes... and hence I never have a bar that wasnt met and such...if something doesnt fit in with what I want to be a part of I dont pursue it)...She just cant understand my mentality, and I know it was because of where she was raised and how and such... (Bronx, NY) she takes more of a pessimistic view on things as opposed to me where I try to take the most optimisitc view I can...I understand that she doesnt understand my view on things...so its kind of one of those agree to disagree situations but it still irks me and its like Im having a hard time dealing with that....ayeee...
Im going to do what I want to do and no one can change my mind