I would be wary of all the Crisco. I make a laundry soap that is 50% Crisco, and within a month it develops DOS (the dreaded orange spots). I don't care since it is just used for laundry soap, but it would be pretty ugly in a soap used to wash with.
Given that you are new to soapmaking, I would avoid adding honey to the soap. Honey can make it overheat. It would be better to try adding honey once you've had some experience. You can avoid making a drying soap by the oils and superfat percentage you choose. Some people are sensitive to the amount of coconut oil in soap, and the percentage you are using could end up feeling drying. However, that's some people, not all. That's why we all end up experimenting so much - to find out what
we really like. What kind of oatmeal did you want to add? Oatmeal can make the bar more soothing, but even colloidal oatmeal (at least the type made with old fashioned oats) will make the bar of soap rough and scrubby. I can't speak to colloidal oatmeal made from instant or quick oats. The lather isn't rough (I make a face soap with colloidal oatmeal), but I wouldn't want to use the soap directly on my face.
As for what the numbers mean, your recipe is a bit confusing since you list the oils in percentages and lye and water in ounces. Without knowing what the oil amount is in ounces, we can't tell you if the amount of lye is too much or not. The other numbers in soapcalc (conditioning, bubbly, creamy, etc.) tell you about the properties of the soap. Here is the link to the explanation of soapcalc's numbers:
http://www.soapcalc.net/info/soapqualities.asp . I ran your recipe in soapcalc and it is fairly conditioning, and the cleansing value isn't too high (for these two properties, if one value is high, the other is usually low). The lather may or may not be to your liking. You did not give the superfat % you used. I'm guessing it is 5%, since that is the default for soapcalc. 5% is fine, but if you go with 7% or 8% it will help it be less drying. Your recipe should make a decent soap, though potentially prone to DOS (especially if where you live is hot and humid).
Do you have any other oils available to you such as palm, palm kernel oil, or any butters like shea?