I have to say a few of my soap batches have turned out truly ugly. The color combination that made one batch look like raw meat was memorably ugly. As was the confetti soap in which I used way too much confetti and the soap fell apart.
Many batches have ended up looking very nice except it was not what I expected it to look like. Only a few batches have turned out exactly how I wanted them to.
The lesson I think soap is teaching me is to not have a lot of expectations about getting a particular outcome. And another is to celebrate the happy accidents.
Welcome to the club, Todd.
I like the colors you chose. If the swirl didn't turn out quite like you wanted it to, look at the bright side -- the soap will all go down the drain with time.
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I was a 4H-er starting in late grade school all the way through high school. In the rural community where I grew up, 4H was one of the few social organizations available to kids outside of church and school activities. It's a bit like Scouting, I suppose, but there are differences.
4H has always been co-ed (Scouting at the time I grew up was not), although some clubs' specialties appeal to some people more than others. (Like my 4H club in high school was mostly girls, but there was another local club that was mixed.)
In any case, it is a great way to socialize and get to know kids from a wider area than just your school. It was also a neat way to get involved in constructive activities. Many 4H clubs specialize in things like agriculture, raising and/or training animals, practical crafts, gardening, public service, arts and crafts, engineering/science, etc.