If you have trouble with commercial soap, then picking up soap making is a great opportunity to make the soap that’s perfect for YOU! It takes some time, but since your skin is going to stay with you for a while, you might as well take that time
If that’s not possible for you, your next best option is to find some craft markets and make friends with a soap maker there, who may be able to help you. I saw a lot of people posting about how switching to artisanal soap can be a little weird at first because your oils remain, but a very sensitive friend of mine noticed that my soap made her hands feel both really soft and REALLY clean. This may be because she was trying my very young soaps that had only cured for a couple months
If you can’t find any artisanal soap, maybe try African black soap. A lot of people swear by it. If you want to try and see if high cleansing is the solution, try and find one of these all-purpose soaps like Marseille, which is not going to irritate your skin like a detergent, but it’s also not cream and silk.
When you do find the solution, let us all know!