Hey Prairiecraft (and scouter too). If you don't mind me butting in to the conversation - I have gotten the most positive hits from AHRE thus far of the FO suppliers that I've tried. Your notes suggest you haven't tried them yet, might want to give them a shot. Historically they have a huge sale in early August on their one ouncers - might want to wait for that.
I have not yet tried the big boys (read expensive) so no DayStar, SC, TSW as yet. And I've only tried a handful of BB but found they were pretty decent (I did my homework on SSRB first). Of the AHRE, I really liked their Clementine Lavender, Satsuma, Bamboo Sugar Cane, BRV, Pineapple, Green Clover & Aloe (but it's called something else). There are a few others as you can see from the notes I sent to you.
What I found helpful was sniffing the soaps blind after a few weeks to see if I could identify them. If I couldn't, they didn't pass the test. You'd be amazed (or maybe you wouldn't) about the number that I could not identify. My 12 year old daughter came up with a term for "generically clean, soapy smell." She says "smells like hotel soap." (!) She's right.
I discovered I don't really like ozone type scents. I also don't like perfumey scents. If the description reads something along the lines of "citrus and floral blend with a dry down of patchouli, vanilla and musk" - well, I think I'll pass. Ditto for "herbal" or "green" scents that have eight or ten notes blended together. They smell sort of generic to me. Hate Lovespell and still can't wrap my brain around Pink Sugar. Don't like Green Irish Tweed or Black Vetiver Cafe.
I've found a decent coffee (CS), am still looking for a good chocolate (BB's chocolate espresso is quite nice, I've heard that SOS Chocolate Decadence is THE ONE but haven't brought myself to deal with their silly buying incentive plan and three grades of fragrances). Still searching for coconut - so far Peak is the best in a field of bad contenders. Most vanillas I've tried have morphed, still looking. Also hunting for a realistic ginger. I like fruity scents but not baked goods. Most "tea" scents I find sort of blah. Florals? I personally detest most florals other than lavender but AHRE and BCN make a decent jasmine and Peak's Rose Bouquet is alright. As I have friends and family that like florals I will continue to search for versions that I can bear to smell.
I am participating in an FO round robin on another forum. There is a box with about 80-100 ounces of FOs and EOs in it that is making the rounds. You get it, take the ones you want, substituting others from your stash that you don't want and pass it on to the next participant. I'm next in line to get it. Should be interesting. I'll get to smell a hundred FOs and it should be educational.
Basically, I find I'm leaning towards FOs for which the EO equivalent is too expensive. There are quite a number of EOs that one can get for $20-30 per lb, on par with good quality FOs. I've had fun and good results blending single note FOs with EOs.
Whew, that's enough for now.