[quote="Healinya"
I agree it may go over some kids' heads... certainly not all.. I loved this stuff when I was a kid.[/quote]
I agree that there would certainly be kids who find the information very interesting (I would have been one of them), and would love it, and learn it. But the actual chemistry of it would go over the kids heads, simply because they haven't had the basic chemistry necessary to truly understand saponification. They would be able to parrot back what happened (and think it is neat), but real conceptual understanding wouldn't be there.
That said, there is certainly a way for students that age to describe that there are chemical changes taking place, what that means, and how cool it is for the real-life application of a science concept. It depends upon how in-depth the conceptual understanding is expected to be. The main thing that bothers me as a teacher is the fact that the student wouldn't be able to actually make the soap because of the dangers. She should be able to do the entire project herself, with just parental supervision. This is science, and the kids should be DOING science themselves.
But let me get off my soapbox (pun intended). I can get very intense when discussing philosophy and methodology of teaching science - it's what I do. Perhaps there is a way for this project to be tweaked so that the student can really participate? For example, if the soap is being made at home, could mom make the lye solution and let the daughter pour it in an stir the soap? I have fifth graders who I would trust to do that, and others I wouldn't. The mom would have to decide what she is comfortable with her daughter doing. Could she do a melt and pour project? Oh, and I just thought of another idea that might be a compromise - could she video her mom making the soap (or that parts that she can't do, while her mom videos that parts she can), while she narrates? I just really feel the daughter needs to be DOING the demonstration in some way.