I hear what you're saying, Engblom, but I'd say the most dangerous part of handling lye is being fearful of it.
Fear makes a person jumpy and over-reactive and more prone to mistakes and accidents. Planning and experience will help most people relax. Plan and prepare -- use safety glasses and gloves, have fresh running water available nearby, keep inexpensive cloths or paper towels ready for use, and rehearse what you will do for first aid should it be needed.
Then let it go, focus on your work, and soap with grace and joy.