Hi! I have made a few batches,but am confused with the additives.. i made a batch with papaya,it was too soft..i made with wine,it got very hot and thick,spatula did not move and oil separated.. it somehow turned into soap..i added neem and basil leaves paste,that did not show any result..may be i added less..so is there a particular amount to add paste,purees of fruits and veggies and powders like clays,herbs,etc..and yes,honey and citrus fruits..please guide..