Okay, everyone stop for a moment, before this gets more out of hand.
OP, you may well be new and wanting help, but the internet is not a good medium for picking up nuances such as how stressed you are and how many jobs you have. People don't have to help you and may also be rushed and so will pop a short post
- If you want others to assume the best about you, do the same for them.
Plus, as people don't have to help, having it thrown back in their faces is not going to endear you to the other members.
As has been said, slow down in general. If you are stressed and tired, trying to work out soaping is not a good idea. Take some time to learn some theory, read the threads, look at recipes, post questions and digest the responses slowly. Then, make soap with enough time. You cannot rush this sort of thing.
Now to be the mean one - you shouldn't even be thinking about considering the idea of looking to sell.