Agreed, that is WAAAAYYY to much SL. Typically you want 1-3% of the total oil weight. You are using almost double that. You are also making a HUGE batch for someone who is new to soaping.
Are you really using a 50% lye solution? Or did you forget to include the goat milk when listing all the ingredients?
Regarding the fragrance oil, every FO (and EO) reacts differently, and has different safe usage rates. You should be purchasing them from suppliers who provide safe usage rates, testing notes, and customer reviews to tell you how that particular FO behaves. Many of them will accelerate terribly, cause separation or ricing, or create other problems. You need to research this and adjust your process accordingly (or don't use that particular FO).
Given that you aren't aware of these basic facts about using FO in soap, or how to diagnose the very basic problems you are having, you really aren't ready to sell. Please make a bunch of small batches and give them to testers who will provide honest feedback
over time. Otherwise, you are exposing yourself to potential liability for causing harm to your users (skin irritation, or worse), and also potentially creating a bad name for handcrafted soap if your soaps go rancid quickly, or develop other problems that don't show up until some time has passed.
We are here for you and want to help you succeed with soapmaking, as well as selling - when you are ready for that.