Nature's Garden has a Cucumber Wasabi Cilantro that I'm thinking of trying. I have never heard of lavender being linked to breast cancer, but perhaps it could be the method by which the oil is expressed. Chemically expressed essential oils are not recommended because they can take on the properties of the chemical that was used on them. Make sure you always buy essential oils from reputable dealers. I like Lavender and Rose together, but I am getting to the point where lavender makes me sick because I've been using it on my girls' mosquito bites so much this year.
I like for a man to smell like the ocean (sans dead fish - more like pine trees and salt water) or woody/citrusy scents. I'm a sucker for Axe and Estee Lauder Pleasures for Men, so whatever their notes are, I LIKE! I don't even mind some fruity undertones as long as it is weighted down with something like Bay Rum, leather or tobacco. This gives me a great idea for a new scent btw...
As for me, my husband loves when I wear fruity scents. He claims to hate coconut, but will attack me if I'm wearing my coconut/passionfruit body spray. He also loves my Escada perfume (Marine Groove and Rockin' Rio - so... fruity