I finally flipped the switch after months of soul searching and sent the paperwork to my Attorney to file the convertorship paperwork for mom. Hopefully, it will be file asap.
My step- sister decided it was okay to use my Mother's money to pay for her 2 daughters, 4 grandchildren, and a babysitter to fly to CA then pay for a Carnival Cruise for all of them herself and take my mom on a Carnival Cruise to Mexico. We will just see about that. How irresponsible is it to take a 93 yr old with congestive heart failure who is also subject to seasickness and has mobility issues. According to my cousin that talked to my step my mom's black eye was from a fall on the ship and my mom told me she was in bed the entire time sick. Sadly my mom does not realize she even paid for the trip, she keeps telling me they all paid for their own tickets. Nope, I have the bank statements.
I have put up with all this long enough with my step and I am heading to talk to the DA tomorrow or Friday about filing criminal charges against her. The amount of money she spent on moms is actually a felony 1 if they will pursue it. I am done with trying APS (Adult Protection) we know what she does there, she runs with mom and files restraining orders. Hopefully, I will finally be able to "Rock Her World," big time. This all came about after a long conversation with my former boat neighbor from Vegas that is well know in the town and a big Advocate for Elder Abuse. In the last 3 years, she has helped put several people in jail for this type of behavior including an attorney that was sentenced to 40 years in jail. She is not a lady to mess with even at 86 yrs old! My friend's husband was President of the Steel Workers Union in Vegas and she had Cadillac Dealerships. Very connected. Off the point. I was awake almost all night, running this through my mind, after about 2 hrs sleep got I up for market, she called me and I told her yes I am going to try to file charges. My husband also told me good it needs to be done. We will see.
My step- sister decided it was okay to use my Mother's money to pay for her 2 daughters, 4 grandchildren, and a babysitter to fly to CA then pay for a Carnival Cruise for all of them herself and take my mom on a Carnival Cruise to Mexico. We will just see about that. How irresponsible is it to take a 93 yr old with congestive heart failure who is also subject to seasickness and has mobility issues. According to my cousin that talked to my step my mom's black eye was from a fall on the ship and my mom told me she was in bed the entire time sick. Sadly my mom does not realize she even paid for the trip, she keeps telling me they all paid for their own tickets. Nope, I have the bank statements.
I have put up with all this long enough with my step and I am heading to talk to the DA tomorrow or Friday about filing criminal charges against her. The amount of money she spent on moms is actually a felony 1 if they will pursue it. I am done with trying APS (Adult Protection) we know what she does there, she runs with mom and files restraining orders. Hopefully, I will finally be able to "Rock Her World," big time. This all came about after a long conversation with my former boat neighbor from Vegas that is well know in the town and a big Advocate for Elder Abuse. In the last 3 years, she has helped put several people in jail for this type of behavior including an attorney that was sentenced to 40 years in jail. She is not a lady to mess with even at 86 yrs old! My friend's husband was President of the Steel Workers Union in Vegas and she had Cadillac Dealerships. Very connected. Off the point. I was awake almost all night, running this through my mind, after about 2 hrs sleep got I up for market, she called me and I told her yes I am going to try to file charges. My husband also told me good it needs to be done. We will see.
