If I offended, I'm truly sorry. That was not my intent. By way of explanation, I do believe teaching the basics of liquid soap making, rather than the latest method, is the best way to give Newbies a grounding, or solid understanding, from which they can experience a successful result from which they can grow.
I'm not so sure that I would call my method the "Failor method." The world of LS making has come a long way since Failor published her book back in 2000. I joined the Yahoo LS Group in 2004. Over the years, I've witnessed most of those advances first hand. Many people on that group contributed to where LS is today, through arduous trial and error and generously sharing their results, just as you do here.
I'm happy to have made a small contribution to that growth, in my own way. If you use 2 or 3 X KOH for your water amount, or 3% SF to eliminate the need to neutralize, or the dilution method outlined above, you have me to thank for that. If you use Alaina B's (Faith's) LS method, or the link DeeAnna posted above, and many other bloggers, they honed their methods as members of the Yahoo group. I know this because I recognize some of my words in their "how to" descriptions. It gives me great joy to know that my efforts to teach others is being paid forward.
You may be surprised to learn that I agree that Failor's method is passé. I also would add that her book is confusing and the information is not well organized. That being said, it contains good basic information and is a great resource for troubleshooting problems.
Taken out of context or not, Susie, I agree with what you said as quoted above, and I'll even say it about me here: I am going to share my recipes and process, and hopefully others will also. Because my way is one way, not the "right" way, or the "only" way." Obviously, you don't feel that way any more, at least that's what I'm hearing from what you said above. When you challenge the advice I share, based on my knowledge and experience, you're essentially saying your way is the right way and the only way.
I wish you still held that belief and didn't feel the need to confront others who do things differently. There are many ways to achieve success in LS, I believe, and I respect your right to choose what works for you and for you to share that knowledge with others. If only you could do likewise, it would make it a lot easier for me to help others when I have specific knowledge that responds to whatever issue they're having.
Namaste