I use a 3:1 water ratio (like summerbeemeadow.com and Soapee.com allow). This person used Soapcalc.net that uses a lower water amount. I do not like the paste that low amount of water yields. It is more difficult to stir, and dilutes much slower.
If I could suggest to both of you to try this recipe, you will kick yourself for trying anything else. It is IrishLass's with one tweak in what to mix the KOH with. This has 3% superfat.
Coconut Oil 25% 8 oz
Olive Oil 65% 20.8 oz
Castor Oil 10% 3.2 oz
KOH 7.1 oz (set calculator to 90% purity. Find out your KOH purity and adjust accordingly.)
Water 10 oz
Sugar 1 tablespoon
Glycerin 11.3 oz
Melt and mix the oils. Add the glycerin to the oils.
Mix the KOH in small increments, stirring vigorously, with the water. (Save a tablespoon out to mix with the sugar, then dump that into the oils.)
Once the KOH is completely dissolved, add it to the oils.
Stickblend until you get an applesauce, you will then think it is ready, it is not. Continue to stickblend, it will go back to liquid, but once it is liquid, be prepared for either flying bubbles or almost instantaneous paste. I have had it do both on the various batches I have made. Either way, you are done stickblending. Cover the pot and walk away. I usually clean up all my soaping stuff and wash the dishes. Once you have taken a break for half an hour or more, start checking the paste. Once you see it looking like vaseline was mixed in, you can zap check it. If it is zapless, you can begin dilution. My theory is that the hotter your oils and your KOH/water mixture, the less time it takes to hit gel stage, but I have no proof. I have had this take as little as 20 minutes, and as long as 4 hours. You can even just mix until it is fully emulsified and then cover it and walk away. Simple and fast, with a good thick handsoap.