The recipe I'm using is 38% of water to oils 5% super fat 20% babassu oil, 45% olive oil, 30% beef tallow, 5% castor oil, .5 ounce honey, and .5 ounce ground oatmeal.
38% water (as a percentage of oils) is a lot of water for this recipe.
Honey also contains water.
Your lye concentration is under 27%.
I suggest that you use "lye concentration" instead of "water as a percentage of oils" in your calculator, to control your water content better.
A lye concentration of 33% would work much better for this recipe.
The soap does not mix well the trace is super fast and becomes thick really fast.
Carefully adding the honey to your cooled lye solution (slowly, allow for colour change and cooling, add a little more, wait for it to cool etc.) will ensure that it is fully incorporated into your mix (better than stick blending it into your oils).
These two changes should correct the problems you are seeing in your soap (not mixing well and weeping).
A great reference for honey soap is IrishLass Honey Soap
This is my experimental honey & beeswax soap that I made the other night, just as August 11 was turning into August 12. I made a small, 1.2 lb sample-batch just in case any chaos ensued, as I didn't want a bigger batch to be ruined, if you know what I mean. ;) Although I'm quite used to soaping...
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