I've never used bentonite clay in my shave soap, but I used to use kaolin clay, which provided nice slip and an effective bit of protective cushion to my soap which prevented my hubby from ever getting cuts with my soap.
There are definitely 2 camps amongst wet shaver in regards to using clay/not using clay, lol A few years back some of our resident, self-described 'crazy wet shaving dudes' on our forum who are on the 'no clay' side put me to the challenge of trying to make my long-standing, hubby-approved formula without clay. It was a disaster.....for the first time ever in all the years of using my shave soap, my hubby got nicked (he'd been shaving with it for at least 6 years by that time). He told me it was the "crappiest" shave he ever got with my soap- no protective cushion and no glide.
Undaunted, I tried again, and managed to successfully reformulate my shave soap without the use of clay. The trick was beefing up the total sum of my stearic/palmitic fatty acid content from about 21% to 50% by reducing some of my tallow % to make room for 28% straight stearic acid. That's all it took. I didn't have to change anything else in my formula but that one thing in order to go clay-less and my hubby have a great shave with excellent glide and protection. The higher stearic/palmitic % is able to do everything that the clay did.
Moral of the story- at least where formulas like mine are concerned anyway (formulas rich in butters and tallow and very little where coconut and other oils are concerned) ...clay is a great ingredient to use if the total stearic/palmitic is on the lower end of the 20's, percentage-wise, but is not needed if the total sum of stearic/palmitic is at least 50%. That should make any straight-razor users in your family happy (if you have them). For what it's worth, my hubby has never used a straight razor. He uses a cartridge-type razor and he never noticed the blades dulling any more/less than usual when he was using my shave soap with clay as compared to when he was using a commercial shave soap without clay (
edited to add: or my own shave soap without clay).
IrishLass