Slightly off-topic, but I went to my 8 year-old nephew's birthday party, and saw one of his friends. I only see the friends and their parents a couple of times a year, on his birthday and at maybe at some school-related festival. This little girl has terrible, terrible exzema/psoriasis. Or maybe something else, I don't know much about these things. As long as I have known her (3 years, I think) all of her skin that you can see is covered with angry red welts/flakes.
She is a sweetheart, too, although a little reserved, for reasons that I can only guess, it must be so hard to be a kid and have to deal with other kids with issues like that. I'm sure her mom (a single one) is doing the best she can, the kids go to a magnet school where the parents are required to do a significant of "volunteer" work, they are all pretty smart, invested and engaged in their childrens' well-being.
I *so* wanted to talk to the mom and see if there was anything I could do, stuff we could try, but I didn't. I just thought that she had heard all the well-intentioned advice, probably over and over, and maybe just wanted to sit w/the other parents and sip some sangria for a change. Anyway, it made me really sad and realize how scarring, in so many ways, these things can be. Especially when you are a tender, small person.