Me too, bbr. I've only been soaping for a year now and have come up with some great recipes but the fragrances? The whole fragrance issue--performance, quality, ability to stick, etc.--is absolutely giving me fits.
I don't know that what I do is necessarily *better*, but I actually freeze the GM and add the lye very slowly--bit by bit, stirring well after each addition. I do this over an ice water bath, keeping an eye on the temperature throughout the process, never letting the temp get over about 85...
Haha EG, I just snarfed my coffee on that one! Although an excellent point, thanks for bringing a bit of levity to this rather scrappy but well-intentioned and informative thread.
I just wonder sometimes. Sooo tired of spending hours combing reviews specifically for CP experiences with fragrances, reading the RAVING reviews of how absolutely AWESOME a FO is and how a fragrance was so good a reviewer was brought to tears!! (I might be exaggerating here.) And then...
I would be concerned with a lack of rise in temperature that the lye was possibly no good? I've never had a lye + liquid not get warm at the very least. Even with only 2 ounces of lye and cold water, I would think there should have been even a small change. I'm no expert in this, so possibly...
No judgement here either. Being another resident of semi-rural America, my cats--and the cats of everyone I know--roam freely. I would be happier if I could keep them in, however they are having none of it.
My heart breaks for you, I know exactly how you feel. I'm sending good thoughts your...